The true love alike the blossom love hearts that always bring true happyness into others life…..
What is love? What is true love?
When someone, be your parent, relative, friends, lover, life partner, your community leader, the leaders of the nation tell you : “I love you! I truely love you”.
What is true love ? How someone truly love another beings will conduct their loves?
Some will tell you, how much I had supported you and make you feel comfort!
How much of times, money and love I had spent on you!
How many of sleepless nights I keep thinking and dream about you!
How much of risks and sufferings I have endured in order to save you from the risks…..!
Yes, all these are love!
The kind generous naturally give away all the precious things, time and emotions to someone else…….
I LOVE YOU is something wonderful.
Right?
Lately one of the Tibetan Buddhism lama, HH Pakchok Rinpoche raised this matter about “I Love YOU”.
How wonderful indeed when someone is able to love another person with true love.
“What we means true love? “ He stressed again…..
He continue ,
“ True Love embodies elements of generosity, kindness, deep compassionate…. But the most important is the true love with no expectation and self ego clinging!”
Many audiences and disciples of Rinpoche laughed after hearing this!
I laughed, yet with tears !
Tears of realization of the roots of sufferings of ourselves and other sentient beings who are still wandering in the ocean of ignorance….
What is this??
Yes.. True Love is only come with true respect, dignity, freedom – its means with NO EXPECTATION of return and being recognized when you offer your guinea love to someone!
Love with no attachment?
How can it be?
Yes we can.. “Love or hate, all desires that cause attachment, clinging and self grasping , partial one and expectation all cause us self clinging and cause sufferings to ourselves and others”
Most time when we love someone , don’t we EXPECT the same level or love to be returned?
I expect you to love me the same way and the way I want or I love you!
I expect you will appreciate what I had done to you!
I expect you will respect my opinion because you know how much I love and care about you!
I expect ..
I expect,….
So much “expect” infect underneath of “ I love you very much”….
It is not true LOVE!
True love will has no attachment and expectation
Has no clinging of “I”
Many people say : I love you
Infect these people are actually saying : “I love ME- Pakchok Rinpoche concluded and laughed.
True love has no expectation, no attachment and no “I” “ego clinging”….
If people can love another person with such attitude, there will be no quarrel. Especially the couple or lover.
For me, Rinpoche statement is similar can be applied into a bigger level of how a leadership of a nation shall love their citizens and nation.
Whenever I hear the slogan that keeping us all days and nights alert from our New Prime Minister, Najib, lately, who wants to keep telling us: “All Unite for One Malaysia”.. For me, this slogan sound like : I deeply love you all and lets unite to be ONE!
If this slogan is the true manifestation or love declaration of our premier to its citizens and nation. Somehow, I deeply wish that he can realize that the true meanings of “ I Love YOU” – YOU means selfless. Selfless , free from ego and power clinging.
To be able truly respect, granting freedom, uphold the dignity of other being and human fellows without any single expectation.
Don’t get furious when I don’t follow/agree your advises, ideas, policies and ways
Don’t arrest me when I have pointed out and protest on your mistakes, acts of abuses, weakness and shortcoming
Don’t use violence to simply arrest and threw me into jail and being tortured if we are the One family
Don’t steal all the wealth of the nation for Oneself if you truly love us
Yes, One Malaysia !
Yes, I Love you, Malaysia, if it is truly for ALL. Not for One Self.
I love you deeply too……
But I don’t want to loss my dignity, freedom and consciences just simply to be love by you and echo for One Malaysia for Once voice, One opinion like the puppets live under the dictatorship fascists state.
24 May 2009
Johor Bahru
Love that is arising of ego clinging alike the the imprisonement of true love....