Once a master told us:
The most hardest thing in life is for a person to be able more selfless, more common sense, more compassion and appreciate life and others’ kindness to them. Especially when you are facing terrible obstacles and problems in life.
If a person who tend to expect others should and oblige to help him/her and expect others to follow their ways. Instead of having the heart of appreciation to other kindness, they kept complaint and not satisfied.
This behavior will lead a person towards even worse life, It is because their minds are full of self-center and selfishness. There will be no one will be able to help them. Only they themselves to realize their diluted mind.
Usually they will continue adding their obstacles in life.
Due to unaware that the root cause of their problems in life is mostly are self created.