Lately I had traveled very far away to visit again some of my old friends who had been involved in the political struggle for decades long. Since the past 10 years , I had make many trips to visit them. But, this journey infect had brought me something very unexpected and yet very reflective.
Along the journey , I stared at the mountains, forest and blue sky that I was hardly able to see in the city. The deep feeling of familiarity arose in my heart. Somehow, I know that whatever journey/path I am making now and the past are all connected to them. Our encounter in this life is not something coincidence. Since I was young student activist in early 20, whenever I traveled along this long journey towards the north of Malaysia, the same feeling always appeared within me, even though I had not met any of them.
This time, our old friends are getting older. Getting older physically and mentally. When death is approaching us. None of us can really figure out how well we can manage it and able to let go totally whatever we cling to in this life. No one can avoid facing death.
Be you are the most powerful, wealthier, famous person in the world,
You are entitled to death.
Life and death , alike the twins who is always accompanying each other. When there is no death, then there will be no life or alive again.
However, we infect never know how we will behave when death is just in front of us or near the corner. Somehow, I had witnessed so many old activists, friends or relatives that I close to. Witnessing their sufferings of cannot letting go their past and their clinging to power/name/fame and wealth.
Be they are the powerful person at home, workplace, society or nation. Seems many of them are enduring the hard time to let go. Let go their position and power when times come. Let go their clinging of self righteousness.
Being the activists and feeling good that they had done great things for society.
The older they are the more insecure and also hard to let go. Fail to realise the born/life, sickness , old age and death is part of our life.
Therefore, some of them turned to be dictatorial behaviors, or keep blaming of their failures caused by others for self pityness.
The worse case was mentally turned to be child alike and clinging to past glorious memory.
The key root cause of the problem is due to our mind cannot let go, especially let go of “self“.
Cannot accept no matter how great we think we are, eventually all of us at the end will reach to same point of the life journey. It Is the destiny of death. Therefore, we indeed have nothing able to hold on. Life essence at the end is empty.
There is no death, then there will be another life/alive.
Life and death is merely a continuous circle.
From these experiences, it has indeed reminded me again the teaching gave by our Tibetan Lama teacher: “We are so busy preparing many things in life. The end , we forget prepare ourselves to die. Prepare to make our death as a homework and making death as the last practice of letting go of self”
He reminded us, don’t ever think you are great whenever you practice generosity and helps others, especially those involve in social or political work. Infect, the most righteous person are those who are most harder to let go. Behind the “righteousness”, the sense of “self”. The ego clinging of feeling good when people think you are good and special. All these self love behavior will eventually enhance our deep self clinging that cause sufferings to ourselves and others.
“Self righteousness embody the strong ego clinging will be eventually caused self sufferings to ourselves the most!! “- this is the last thought and the only thought arise in my mind in this long journey lately, especially after visited these old friends from far.
Kuala Lumpur
18 June 2009